Comments on: Working, Grieving, and Not Having Sex… http://www.livedtotell.com/2007/05/30/working-grieving-and-not-having-sex/ 35 year old mother of two trying to live with panic disorder and depression without losing her sense of humor. Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:56:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: Tammy http://www.livedtotell.com/2007/05/30/working-grieving-and-not-having-sex/#comment-4008 Tammy Sat, 02 Jun 2007 02:09:50 +0000 http://www.livedtotell.com/2007/05/30/working-grieving-and-not-having-sex/#comment-4008 Hi Belle, Well, my Mom has a lot of reasons to be mad at my Dad. He committed suicide, he left her with four kids (one of them pregnant) he made sure she would be broke etc. )Plus, he was severely abusive for so many years. I think she feels as if she should visit his grave, but it almost never goes well. I just don't want to subject my kids to the anger. I understand the anger, but I try to deal with mine in other ways because I realized years ago that holding my anger in was only making me sick. I will be visiting their graves by myself, as soon as I get a day off.. So If I buy an A/C I can get more sex? I'll have to look into the cost... Always always happy that you comment :) Tammy Hi Belle,
Well, my Mom has a lot of reasons to be mad at my Dad. He committed suicide, he left her with four kids (one of them pregnant) he made sure she would be broke etc. )Plus, he was severely abusive for so many years. I think she feels as if she should visit his grave, but it almost never goes well. I just don’t want to subject my kids to the anger. I understand the anger, but I try to deal with mine in other ways because I realized years ago that holding my anger in was only making me sick.
I will be visiting their graves by myself, as soon as I get a day off..
So If I buy an A/C I can get more sex? I’ll have to look into the cost…
Always always happy that you comment :)
Tammy

]]> By: Belle http://www.livedtotell.com/2007/05/30/working-grieving-and-not-having-sex/#comment-4007 Belle Thu, 31 May 2007 15:04:00 +0000 http://www.livedtotell.com/2007/05/30/working-grieving-and-not-having-sex/#comment-4007 Hell yeah, people have more sex with the a/c on. If I'm hot, there ain't no hot! I don't know the complete back story, but why does your mother even want to go visit your dad's grave if she feels this way? I truly felt Polly's despair reading that. I think cemeteries are so lovely and peaceful. I visit my two close friends' graves on a monthly basis. It's my way of remembering and cherishing their friendship. I highly recommend going to your dad and friend's grave by yourself. Find a little spot close by, sit yourself down and think your thoughts without feeling you are on display to others. And then cry all the way home. Hell yeah, people have more sex with the a/c on. If I’m hot, there ain’t no hot!

I don’t know the complete back story, but why does your mother even want to go visit your dad’s grave if she feels this way? I truly felt Polly’s despair reading that.

I think cemeteries are so lovely and peaceful. I visit my two close friends’ graves on a monthly basis. It’s my way of remembering and cherishing their friendship.

I highly recommend going to your dad and friend’s grave by yourself. Find a little spot close by, sit yourself down and think your thoughts without feeling you are on display to others. And then cry all the way home.

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